Welcome to If It Brings You Joy – a blog that inspires ideas to make life a little better for yourself and others. I have a passion for bringing joy to my life and share my ideas with you.
Hi! My name is Ellen Burgan. I am a midlife woman who loves to have fun, yet I have a big appreciation for the art of relaxation. I prefer to live spontaneously, and as I say, go where the wind blows me.
I live a simple life in Northern Wisconsin surrounded by nature at its best.
During the summer I love to be on the lake, and I think the winter snow is beautiful – for about the first month. (The other 4-5 months, not so much.)
About If It Brings You Joy
Are you a midlife woman like me? The chaos of kids has passed and now it’s time to make the best of our empty nest!
Sometimes the hectic life of raising children and/or establishing a career can leave our self-priority at the bottom of the list, and we forget to do the things that float our boat.
If It Brings You Joy is a blog that will encourage you to explore new things, reconnect with the things you miss, and maximize your time of midlife.
Here at If It Brings You Joy, you’ll get ideas on how to:
- Rekindle your self-priority
- Clarify passions to live a purposeful life
- Discover new joys
- Slow down and enjoy the journey
- Make life a little better for yourself and others
I provide inspirational ideas and how-to resources to encourage midlife women to be prepared to launch a meaningful new chapter of life. Let’s roll into our 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and beyond living a life with a finely tuned mix of fun and relaxation!
Do you have a passion for personal growth and bringing joy to your life? Me too, and I want to share my ideas with you. Of course what I find joyful may not always be joyful for you, and that’s ok. We can learn from each other.
Trying and experiencing new things first-hand is the way I learn best. I’m a podcast fanatic (read about my favorite podcasts), and as often as possible I gain new knowledge by reading, attending various conferences and workshops, participate in small group discussions, and any other form of education I can take part in.
My intent for If It Brings You Joy is to share what I learn.
May my words be just what you needed to hear today, and may my words even inspire a positive change in your life.
I am a wife of 29 years, and Ray and I have been empty nesters for nearly 8 years.
I have two children: Jamie, a speech language pathologist and she is married to Jim who is also a speech language pathologist; and Chris, who after college and 3 years of a career in communications gave it up to work/travel in various countries . I’m lucky enough to also be the step-mother to Nick, a computer engineer. Nick and I share interests that the rest of our family would probably say are “woo woo.”
At the beginning of 2018, my dad passed away at the age of 86 after having dementia for several years. I was lucky enough to have my parents move to my town about three years before his death, as I was then able to help him and my mom quite a bit.
My mom still lives in the same town as me, and we spend a lot of time together. She’s also the chief proof reader for all my posts.
My two dogs rock my world, as I am a full-fledged dog fanatic. Actually I like most animals. I fondly refer to the many deer in our area as our neighborhood pets.
I have nearly 30 years of business experience and still work full time.
For many years I’ve been a Business Analyst where I work with people to understand their business problems, and recommend or develop a software solution. Currently I do more project management type work in an I.T. department.
There was a 6-year period when I worked in internet marketing. Initiating and managing the company blog was one of my responsibilities, so maybe that’s where the seed was planted for If It Brings You Joy.
Join the If It Brings You Joy Community
Join me in building a community of people who are open to new ideas to make life a little better for ourselves and others. Together we will remind each other to appreciate all the big AND little joys on our journey.
Feel free to contact me , and read the following posts about me and my family to get to know me a little better:
- “Things Are Always Working Out.”
- Dog Adoption: a family tradition
- Korean War: Sharing My Dad’s Story