I am an avid reader of personal development books. (Truth be told, I’m more often an avid audio listener versus reader. Either way, I consume A LOT of inspirational material!) The featured quotes in this post are from various authors that I find highly inspirational, and they certainly understand the importance of being kind to yourself.
Do your best to make sure the voices in your mind are kind – you deserve kindness. Criticizing yourself never feels good, so try to stop negative self talk before it snowballs and becomes a bigger problem in your mind. Love yourself, don’t bash yourself.
Do you ever catch yourself talking down about yourself? I know I do. Being your own best cheerleader is a much better choice than being your own best critic.
Look at mess-ups as an opportunity to grow into a better version of you. When negative thoughts about yourself come into your head, quickly refocus to a positive thought about yourself. See your strong points and be proud.
For example, the thought “I always overthink things and end up being late” can be kinder as “I’m good at thinking things through and I’m getting better at getting things done on time.”
Take time to celebrate your successes – big and small. Recognizing the good you do will help strengthen your inner voice that will help you become more confident. Here’s a quick read on how to become your own best cheerleader.
Know your strengths and then maximize them. Aspire to bring out the best in you so you can be your personal best! Monitor your own mind and be vigilant to being your own best self. Smile, be kind to yourself, and remember to laugh along the way.
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Be Kind to Yourself Quotes
Louise L. Hay Quotes
Louise Lynn Hay is the founder of Hay House, one of my favorite sources for motivational reading and tools. The Hay House goal is to help people improve the quality of their lives. From personal experience, I highly recommend you checkout Hay House and its many products that will help you improve the quality of your life.
Louise Hay, who passed away in 2017 at the age of 90, was also a powerful motivational author who authored several “new thought” self-help books. If you are on a journey of personal development, Louise’s books should definitely be on your read list.
Louise Hay Quotes to Remind You Why You Should Be Kind To Yourself
“Remember, you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” ~ Louise L. Hay
“You have the power to heal your life, and you need to know that. We think so often that we are helpless, but we’re not. We always have the power of our minds…Claim and consciously use your power.” ~ Louise L. Hay
“I say “Out” to every negative thought that comes to my mind. No person, place, or thing has any power over me, for I am the only thinker in my mind. I create my own reality and everyone in it.” ~ Louise L. Hay
“I am willing to release the need to be unworthy. I am worthy of the very best in life, and I now lovingly allow myself to accept it” ~Louise L. Hay
“Think thoughts that make you happy. Do things that make you feel good. Be with people who make you feel good. Eat things that make your body feel good. Go at a pace that makes you feel good.” ~ Louise L. Hay
“Today I Create A Wonderful New Day and A Wonderful New Future.” ~ Louise Hay
And a favorite of mine that I like to keep where I’m sure to see it in the morning:
“Today is going to be a really, really good day.” ~Louise L. Hay
Popular Louise L. Hay books (click image to view on Amazon)
From Amazon: You Can Heal Your Life is a true classic, with millions of copies in print worldwide. Louise’s key message here is that “if we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed.” She explains how limiting beliefs and ideas are often the cause of illness, and how you can change your thinking . . . and improve the quality of your life.
From Amazon: In Heal Your Body, Louise describes the methods she used to cure herself of cancer, which will help you discover patterns in your own ailments that reveal a lot about yourself. It offers positive new-thought patterns to replace negative emotions, an alphabetical chart of physical ailments with their probable causes, and healing affirmations so you can eliminate old patterns.
From Amazon: The Power Is Within You expands on Louise’s philosophy of “loving the self” and shows you how to overcome emotional barriers through learning to listen to your inner voice, loving the child within, and letting your true feelings surface. In these pages, Louise encourages readers to think of themselves positively and be more accepting of—and grateful for—who they are.
Stephen R. Covey
Stephen R. Covey was an educator, author, businessman, and public speaker, and is well-known for his most popular book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. He passed away in July 2012, leaving behind a legacy with his teachings about leadership, time management, effectiveness, success and also love and family.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: “One of the most inspiring and impactful books ever written, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People has captivated readers for 25 years. It has transformed the lives of Presidents and CEOs, educators and parents— in short, millions of people of all ages and occupations.”
“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.” ~ Stephen R. Covey
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“I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.” ~ Stephen R. Covey
“Deep within each of us is an inner longing to live a life of greatness and contribution – to really matter, to really make a difference. We can consciously decide to leave behind a life of mediocrity and to life a life of greatness – at home, at work, and in the community.” ~ Stephen R. Covey
“The proactive approach to a mistake is to acknowledge it instantly, correct and learn from it.” ~ Stephen Covey
Steven Aitchison Quotes That’ll Lift Your Spirits
“If you’re struggling to find incentive, look no farther than the mirror.” ~Steven Aitchison
Looking in the mirror is one of Steven Aitchison’s ideas of what you can do to give yourself an extra boost if you’re feeling a down. Read his article 5 Ways to Summon Motivation to learn the other 4 ideas.
I’m a big fan of Steven Aitchinson. His blog is a must-read for “personal development articles from psychology, health, relationships, lifestyle, spirituality and business.” Here are some more quotes taken from some of Steven Aitchison’s blog posts.
“Recognizing your strengths will build your self-confidence, but don’t put yourself down when recognizing that somebody else is better than you at something.” ~ Steven Aitchison
“You don’t have to be good at everything in your life, but it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy new experiences even if you are not good at them.” ~ Steven Aitchison
“You are doing the best you can do right now. Stop beating yourself up.” ~ Steven Aitchison
“It doesn’t matter what other people think of you. This is YOUR life.” ~ Steven Aitchison
“Trust your journey, trust the process, raise your energy and the right people will come into your life.” ~ Steven Aitchison
Happiness Guru Shawn Achor Quotes
Shawn Achor researched happiness at Harvard and is an author and speaker known for his advocacy of positive psychology. You’ll definitely want to watch his TedTalk where he discusses his research findings on how to become more optimistic and successful.
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“What we’ve been finding is that scientifically, happiness could actually be a choice even when life is difficult.” ~ Shawn Achor
“Happiness is not the belief that we don’t need to change; it’s the realization that we can.” ~Shawn Achor
“For me, happiness is the joy we feel striving after our potential.” ~ Shawn Achor
“When we are happy—when our mindset and mood are positive—we are smarter, more motivated, and thus more successful. Happiness is the center, and success revolves around it.” ~ Shawn Achor
“What we spend our time and mental energy focusing on can indeed become our reality.” ~ Shawn Achor
“The person we have the greatest power to change is ourselves.” ~ Shawn Achor
Potpourri of Other Quotes to Act as Friendly Reminders to Be Kind to Yourself
“A single act of kindness may seem like such a small thing, but so it the ember that starts a wildfire”. ~Zero Dean
“Just in case no one has told you today. You are amazing! Have a really great day.”
“When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace.” ~ Dalai Lama
“Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel, energies are contagious.” ~ Rachel Wolchin
“Love grows when kindness is planted.” ~unknown
“Friendly reminder….YOU are amazing and you can handle anything today!” ~unknown
“KINDNESS is more than deeds. It is an attitude, and expression, a look, a touch. It is anything that lifts another person.” ~ Plato
“I wish to live a life that causes my soul to dance inside my body.” ~ Dele Olanubi
“There is nothing in nature that blooms all year long, so don’t expect yourself to do so either.” ~unknown
“The life you keep waiting for is right here, right now, waiting for you to live it.” ~ Cheryl Richardson
“All of our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.” ~ Walt Disney
“Be nice to yourself. It’s hard to be happy when someone is mean to you all the time.” ~ Christine Arylo
“Be careful how you are talking to yourself because you are listening.” ~ Lisa M. Hayes
“You can’t change how people feel about you, so don’t try. Just live your life and be happy.” ~unkown
“You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them. I tie no weights to my ankles.” ~ C. JoyBell C.
“Self-care is never a selfish act. It is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have. The gift I was put on earth to offer to others.” ~ Parker Palmer
Repeat after me… I CAN DO THIS!
Love yourself like your life depends on it, because it does. ~Anita Moorjani
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Make It a Great Day Today
For more inspiration to take care of yourself, read my post Self-Care: How to Fill Your Own Cup First. Every one of us should look in the mirror and feel good about ourselves. Starting the day on a positive note will help us go forth and be our personal best. Be kind to yourself.
I leave you with my motto… Do at least one act of kindness today and every day to make life a little better for yourself and others. Trust that the Universe will reciprocate exactly when you need it most.
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